So I have decided to restart, bring my blog back, and start sharing my life again. And let me just tell you that this wasn’t an easy decision. I can give you all the reasons, what happened, and why I stopped, but I wont bore you with that now. (If you want to know, shoot me an email or head on over to the Open Forum to ask!). This is bittersweet, yet I am so excited to see what happens.
I’m working on taking a different approach this time. I loved what I was doing, but I think there needs to be a change. I struggled with starting again for a multitude of reasons. There are SO MANY FASHION BLOGGERS out there. Like SO MANY. Especially in Dallas. So while I loved having my blog, I felt like it was pointless honestly. I wasn’t looking to make money, or get fame and attention. I simply wanted to share my ideas, thoughts and fashion interests. However the look of trying to have a blog gave of this vibe of “attention seeking”. And honestly, thats just not me. I’m loud, pretty outgoing, very open, extremely honest. But truly truly I tell you that I don’t want attention, I don’t want fame and I don’t care what people think (to an extent of course). I mean I don’t even Snap. I just can’t haha. I honestly don’t love being the center of attention either. And I feel like Bloggers get a bad wrap. I even have negative feelings about most of them. I “hate” them because I want to be them. We all know a portion of what they post is unreal, yet we still believe it. We still believe the edited photos, the filtered faces and the magical lifestyles. But the grass is never greener. I am looking to be different.
This is exactly why I am bringing the blog back. I had dozens of people approach me asking me why I had stopped, and I gave them all these reasons. And for all these reasons they told me thats exactly why they liked my blog in the first place. I was more real and honest than most. So here we go! And while yes to an extent my photos will be edited, they wont be altered. I won’t blur out the pimples, make my legs thinner or make anything look unreal. I want to share the good and the bad about fashion and life. I want to bring back inspiration, realness and encouragement, and stop the envy, jealousy, and fakeness some blogs put into the world. So yes I will post pretty things, but I will also post real things. I will post behind the scenes. I won’t tell you that I was out at brunch or on a shopping spree when I was actually working. I am not going to open gifts on the Instagram Snapchat thing, and I am not looking to make this my full time job. I’ll talk about fashion, real life events, global events, and whatever else I feel like needs a little light to be shown on it. We all look for help and inspiration and I hope that I can just be one small source for that.
So all in all, I am not a looking to be the next most desired blogger. I’m just a women who wants to share the in’s and out’s of my life in hopes of making a difference.
Let me know what you think!
Until next time,